Relationship Dilemmas: Friends That Can Damage a Marriage

Flirtatious Friends

Watch out for friends who enjoy a ?good chase?. Whether they are some one who, if you were single, might be of interest, or buddies who believe that a little ?playing around? really never hurt anyone.

Hanging out with friends who have a different belief system can encourage wandering or other problems. When there is a ?culture? of flirtation, it is hard to go in another direction.

Personal Happiness Coaches
Some will support you and keep you on track while others, who don?t value marriage, might very well encourage you to walk away from your marriage for your own personal happiness. With friends like this, there is often a disregard for commitment and finding ways (and help) to work through tough situations.

Personal happiness gurus might think you are better off on your own or looking for a ?better? relationship because, they might say, ?your happiness is most important?.

Party Girls and Guys
A good time with friends is usually a good thing for a couple. For some, there is a culture of partying a lot, often accompanied by a lot of alcohol. Good judgment and healthy marriage behavior can be lost when hanging around others who value a good time more than they value marriage and family.

A word about individual friends.

By all means, hang on to your good friends from childhood, school, neighborhood or work, especially if they are supporters or encouragers in your marriage. If your spouse has any objections at all to these relationships, however, then it is time to take a good hard and objective look at them and decide if those relationships have become more of a priority than your spouse.

Too much time spend in individual relationships and activities can lead to growing apart rather than growing together. Seek out couple friendships and make sure that you are socializing and sharing more with your spouse than all of your other friends put together.

Source: http://relationshipdilemmas.blogspot.com/2012/10/friends-that-can-damage-marriage.html

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